When is it time to file for divorce?
Spousal maintenance (“Alimony”)
In 2023, spousal maintenance is still ordered in many Arizona divorces. Defined simply, alimony is mandated by the Court when the spouse with a higher income is required to provide a monthly payment to the spouse with less income. You can think of it as an “allowance” from the spouse with a better job to the spouse with a lesser job; further, spousal maintenance is sometimes ordered when both spouses have full-time jobs. While many people think of alimony as a relic of decades past, these same people are usually aghast upon learning that they are required to provide their soon-to-be ex-spouse with a monthly cash payment for several years. While the alimony scheme mandated in Arizona was created in the 1960s—a time when the social environment inside most American homes was far different than what is found today—the law has not yet “caught up” to this reality. Adding insult to injury, since 2018, due to federal tax law changes, spousal maintenance payments are no longer deductible to the payor. That’s rough.
Arizona’s spousal maintenance law is highly nuanced and leaves the judge with a lot of discretion. Clearly, if you’re getting divorced, you are typically best off talking with a lawyer and getting them to defend you against a spousal maintenance claim when going through divorce. Better yet, if you aren’t married yet, you will probably do well to consider getting a prenuptial agreement in which both spouses agree that there will be no spousal maintenance in the unfortunate event of divorce.
How does the Court determine whether a spousal maintenance award is appropriate?
Generally, Courts award spousal maintenance when the following factors are present:
(1) One spouse has foregone the opportunity to work outside of the home for the benefit of the other spouse;
(2) the marriage produced children, and those children are still young;
(3) One spouse’s efforts greatly benefitted the other spouse’s career (i.e. through providing tuition to their spouse for school expenses, or otherwise helping with the other’s spouse’s vocational training);
(4) there’s a substantial difference in the income between the two spouses; and finally
(5) one spouse will receive insufficient property after the marital property is divide to reasonably support themselves.
Duration and amount of spousal maintenance award: spousal maintenance awards are only given when the marriage lasted five years or more. The longer the marriage (and the older the couple is when getting divorced), the longer the period the Court will mandate spousal maintenance. As a rule of thumb, the amount of spousal maintenance awarded is roughly proportional to allow the divorcing spouse to maintain the “standard of living” enjoyed during the marriage. Courts make a determination based on each spouse’s age, financial capabilities, and health.
Anecdotal example #1. Couple A was married for 25 years, both spouses are currently 55 years old. The couple has two high-school aged children. One spouse stayed home for the past ten years and lacks “good” quality professional job prospects because they’ve let their professional credentials deteriorate over the years. The other spouse worked a “good” corporate job and earns $120,000 per year. When this couple gets divorced, the working spouse will almost certainly be mandated to pay vast sums of spousal maintenance over a period of no less than 5 years. While it’s difficult to know exactly how much spousal maintenance will be ordered—because there is not a definite statutory formula mandated for the amount of spousal maintenance—one can assume that a the payment will be at least $2,500 per month.
Anecdotal example #2. Couple B was married for 13 years, and both spouses are currently in their early 40s. The couple has three kids, aged 12, 9, and 7. Neither spouse stayed home at any point in the marriage, and the kids were in daycare before they were old enough to even walk. Spouse #1 makes $95,000 per year as a blue-collar professional. This spouse gained their training through a two-year vocational technology program and was not supported through school by the other spouse. Meanwhile, Spouse #2 earns $45,000 per year as an entry-level medical professional following a four-year college program. This spouse was not officially “supported” through school (i.e. Spouse #2 took out student loans in their own name). In this case, despite the vast income differential where Spouse #1 earns $50,000 more per year than Spouse #2, an award of spousal maintenance is relatively unlikely because neither spouse gave up their employment opportunities for the other, and each spouse will be reasonably likely to maintain the marital lifestyle following the divorce.
The main “takeaway” from this situation: When structuring your marriage relationship, be cognizant that by “allowing” your spouse to stay home and sacrifice their career opportunities, you are opening yourself up to liability for many years into the future in the event of divorce. While that risk may be “worth it” in many situations, in other situations, you will be paying your ex thousands of dollars per month following divorce.
Vacating the marital residence:
In Arizona, the main asset owned by most couples is their marital residence. Following decades of massive price appreciation in the Phoenix, Scottsdale, Tempe, Glendale, Peoria, and East Valley housing markets, homes in Metro Phoenix are now relatively expensive, and represent a large portion of most couple’s wealth. Divorcing couples have options regarding “what” they can do when selling their home.
Option 1: One spouse can “buy out” the other spouse’s equity and remain in the marital residence. Typically, this requires the spouse remaining in the home to refinance the property and make a large, one-time cash buyout payment to the other spouse. Clearly, the spouse that wishes to buy the other out will have to “qualify” for a loan in their own name—a feat that many find impossible in today’s market.
Option 2: The parties can agree to both move out of the home and sell the property on the open market for fair value. Once the property is sold, assets will be evenly distributed. As a point of fact, this option often leads to “headaches” for one or both of the spouses. All too often, one spouse will drag their feet when the other spouse has already moved out. By “dragging out” and delaying the sale of the martial home, the “slower” spouse is able to “squat” in the home for a long while the divorce proceedings drag on, and legally there is little the other spouse can do. Meanwhile, the “other” spouse is often desperate to get the home sold so they can receive their portion of the home equity and move on with their life. In some rare instances, one spouse, unsure of what their next living arrangement be, will refuse to execute sales documents and prevent the other spouse from selling the home and make a mess of the situation. Unfortunately, the law doesn’t provide much relief to the spouse who is seeking to make a quick sale of the home and move on with their life—this spouse is usually at the mercy of the other spouse and there’s little that can be done.
The Nasty Backdoor Attempt to get exclusive use of the marital residence: Arizona allows romantic partners to get an order of protection that exiles their spouse from the marital home. As a general rule, judges occasionally grant requests for orders of protection on scant evidence. All a disgruntled spouse has to do is walk into court, fabricate claims of abuse or domestic violence within the past year, and the Court will typically grant the request for an order of protection. More often than not, an order of protection will grant one spouse exclusive use of the marital residence and ban the other spouse from coming to the home—except for a brief civil standby in which the exiled spouse is allowed to enter the home with a police escort and gather whatever goods can be taken in a 30 minute period. Further, Courts typically bar the exiled spouse from calling or texting the other spouse unless the conversation is directly pertinent to the parties’ Children.
If your spouse files an order of protection against you, you have the option to contest the order in a formal court hearing. During the hearing, you have to convince the Judge that your spouse embellished the claims of domestic violence/harassment—or demonstrate that the claims of abuse stem from events that occurred more than one year ago. If you’re unable to win at this hearing, your spouse will “win” and the order of protection will be valid for one year from the date it was ordered.
Orders of protection are intended to rescue an embattled spouse from an overtly aggressive, dangerous partner and provide that spouse with immediate relief. All too often, the order of protection is granted for exaggerated claims of domestic abuse and is nothing more than a backdoor attempt to secure exclusive use of the residence by a wily partner that wants to “game the system” for their benefit.
How long can a divorce be put on hold?
At the bare minimum, a divorce will take sixty (60) days in the state of Arizona. The state colloquially refers to the 60 day timeframe as a “cooling off” period and mandates that the Courts wait to process a divorce for at least 60 days. The Courts rationale is based on their policy which promotes marriage between couples; The State hopes that by creating hurdles for divorcing couples to “jump” over, the Couple will be discouraged from pursuing a divorce.
Clearly, the state’s rationale is outdated; by the time a couple files for divorce, the marriage is over, and (usually) has been for a long time. While this law probably made sense when it was enacted, all the law currently does is drag out an already stressful process.
In reality, contested divorces take far longer than sixty days. It’s rare that a divorce happens in just 60 days. In order for a divorce to take just 60 days, the divorcing couple must agree on everything and submit their paperwork promptly and correctly. Unfortunately, this is relatively rare. More commonly, divorce cases takes six months to one year (or longer). In reality, contested divorces (i.e. a “contested” divorce is one where the parties don’t agree on everything) will drag out for a long while.
In particular, when there is a custody battle (i.e. you and your soon to be ex-spouse disagree on custody arrangements, parenting time, and child support) your case will have two or more evidentiary hearings and the case will almost certainly take more than one year.
The First Hearing when there is a divorce with Children
In your first hearing, you often are required to file a petition for temporary orders. When filing for “temporary orders” you are asking the Court to formally decide what will happen for the duration of your case. For example, filing for temporary orders is particularly desirable when your ex is keeping your children from you. When your ex keeps the kids from you, they are engaging in “gatekeeping” or “parental alienation.” While this is widely known to be illegal, couples that are heading for divorce often engage in this behavior….typically as a last-gasp effort to exert power over their ex. When your ex does this, it creates a need for a special “first” hearing in which the Court addresses how Child custody, parenting time, and child support will be handled between the time that you file and the case ends.
Courts rarely address financial matters between couples before the case’s “final hearing.”
Later Hearings During a Divorce
At your final hearing, the Judge slams his gavel and makes final determinations about your case. Anything that could not be agreed upon at an earlier is are handled at the final hearing. Your case’s final parenting plan, custody arrangement, child support, spousal maintenance, and property division are all decided at this final hearing.
What is a short marriage?
Are you considering divorce after a short-term marriage? Typically, Arizona’s courts consider any marriage that lasted less than five years to be a short marriage. While the same law applied to all marriages, regardless of their duration, typically, short term marriages are “easier” to dissolve than long term marriages.
Dividing Assets: the realities of ending a short marriage are (usually) different than ending a long marriage.
While the same law applies to dissolving short term marriages as long marriages, short marriages are usually easier to dissolve. Usually, after a short marriage, the couple has accumulated few—If any—significant assets. Frequently, the couple’s individual assets, debts, and financial accounts have not yet been fully commingled, and the parties can settle in a reasonable time frame.
Also worth noting, spousal maintenance ( “alimony”) is not typically awarded unless a couple was married for five years. Further, in the exceptionally rare circumstance were spousal maintenance is awarded after a short marriage, the maintenance award is usually extremely small (and not worth fighting over).
Short Marriages with Children
While dividing assets is usually easier for a couple that is ending a short marriage, the difficulty of fighting for custody is just as tough for couples that were married for a short period as those who were married for a long time. Typically, legal decision-making authority, parenting time, and child support are unaffected by the length of a couple’s marriage. In fact, short marriages often yield fewer children—who are typically younger when their parent’s divorce—which almost always leads to joint custody and equal parenting time.
While it is difficult to determine how much property you will receive following a short-term marriage, speaking to a family law attorney is imperative. Call Troon Law Group today for a free consultation at (602) 830-0539.